Welcome to Dating Limbo. I've been here many a time during my dating career. It hosts two extreme climates, feast or famine. The last few weeks I've been in a state of dating famine. Don't get too worried, it doesn't bother me a whole lot. I know what I'm looking for in a guy and if I haven't found him yet, meh, whatever. He'll show up eventually. I prefer a famine to a feast of fluff dates, aka going on two or three dates a week with "nice guys", ones you are 85% aren't your type but you'll go out with them once or twice just to verify. At least during a famine I can go on adventures, do what I like, etc. without having to juggle things around mini golfing and ice skating.
My current concern is that I'm not sure how to shake the Limbo thing altogether. I want to be with someone that makes me feel happy, beautiful, adventurous, alive, like I can conquer my worst weaknesses and be my best self. Someone who helps me be my best self. I want it so bad but the problem is that I just can't seem to find someone that fits the mold. I put in effort to meet new people. According to my math with 29,192 households, 11.8% of all households made up of single individuals, average household size 3.34, and for 100 females age 18 and over, 89.3 males
29,192 x 0.118 x 3.34 = 11505.15; 11505.15 x 89.3/189.3= 5427.417 single adult males over 18 in Provo alone. By golly, there has to be someone out there for me.... He's just illusive, like a ninja.
Hrmmm... I didn't mean for this to turn into another dating girly BLAH entry... At least its nerdy... Hopefully you can appreciate nerdy, right?
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